The Empathy Paradox

 

The Empathy Paradox (My version at least)

            There are many different hierarchies of enjoyment, activities we can pursue, feelings we have, etc. Take for instance, anxiety. People who have major anxiety issues cannot enjoy life to the extent of, someone who does not have anxiety; however, they can enjoy life in their own little bubble. In essence, their lack of empathy (the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes) saves them from living a worse life. Once they can put themselves in someone else’s shoes, they limit their ability to recognize the goodness of their own life and ultimately compare lives and hierarchies. This only breeds resentment and self-hatred, and this is also one example of how not all empathy is good.

 

Also, I am starting a brand-new podcast on well…pretty much anything.

 

The Pretty Much Anything Podcast: Under the YouTube Channel Kyle Shipp

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