Ego: The Impenetrable Wall

Ego: The Impenetrable Wall
            My ego gets in the way of a lot of things: Healthy relationships, self-satisfaction, and owning up to my flaws. After all, I can assure you I am not ten feet tall nor bulletproof, but my ego can surely make myself sound as if I were. So, to mitigate this controlling, narcissistic feeling of “I’m better than everyone and everything,” I have looked to Ryan Holiday for some clues and insights into how to do so.
            Although I have not yet read Ryan Holiday’s book Ego is the Enemy, I hope to do so in my upcoming reading challenge. However, after listening to Ryan Holiday’s lectures on his YouTube Channel, “The Daily Stoic,” I believe I can share enough valuable insight to be of some use to you.
            “Ego,” Holiday says “is the impediment to improvement.” And although self-appreciation is not bad (too much can be), a balance between self-appreciation and humility is paramount to being happy with your accomplishments, achieving progress in your endeavors, and sufficiently caring for yourself.
            Needing to work on this, I find myself comparing my success, adversity, and accomplishments too much to peers, co-workers, and colleagues alike. However, I now realize that comparisons, due to an overly confident ego, subjugate the control you have on your life, ultimately giving that control to the person or thing in which you are comparing yourself too.
Consider looking into Ryan Holiday’s YouTube channel, blog, and books linked below in the comment section.


Comparison is the thief of joy.
-Theodore Roosevelt

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  1. Kyle ShippDecember 12, 2019 at 9:04 AM

    Find Ryan Holiday's books at
    https://www.google.com/search?q=ryan+holiday+books&rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS801US801&sxsrf=ACYBGNTlHIO_0vCRIxV5rFMGteVAxafOLw:1576170082936&source=univ&tbm=shop&tbo=u&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjCmpiPy7DmAhVHcq0KHaMTDoQQsxh6BAgREFc&biw=1280&bih=913

    Find his video series at
    https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS801US801&biw=1280&bih=913&sxsrf=ACYBGNT4no68wteNJWH8JDE4sIMGo-3R1Q%3A1576170157979&ei=rXLyXfGuO8e1tgXE1JLYCQ&q=ryan+holiday+the+daily+stoic&oq=ryan+holiday+the+daily+stoic&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l2j0i228j0i22i30l7.3507.7985..8146...3.0..1.134.1578.21j1....2..0....1..gws-wiz.......35i39j33i160j0i13j0i13i30j0i333.AqpYXKUEmjE&ved=0ahUKEwixufyyy7DmAhXHmq0KHUSqBJsQ4dUDCAs&uact=5

    Find his blog at
    https://ryanholiday.net/blog/

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